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May 26, 2014 By Dr. Greg Hamlin

The Relationship Glossary — An Introduction for Memorial Day 2014

Today is Memorial Day, 2014 and I find myself in a reflective mood.  I am struck by the way very young men and women have died in wars that were not of their own making.  I really don't think it makes one a Liberal or a Conservative to simply pause and be thankful for the sacrifice of soldiers.  To … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Relationship Glossary Tagged With: healthy relationship, memorial day, relationship glossary

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