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August 3, 2011 By Dr. Greg Hamlin

Beat Depression Before it Starts by Becoming Positive Realist

To beat depression before it gets started it's best to have a realistic view of yourself, others, your future, and the world in general.  Most people think that being a a realist involves being negative.  It is true that some people who are always positive are simply in denial.  But it's also true … [Read more...]

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